For midlife women physicians who want to design a more fulfilling, joyful life!

Mid-career Burnout?

  Are you overworked and fed up with your job? 

          Are you struggling to find time and energy for a self-care routine?  

                                     Do you want something different but don't know how to begin? 

Is menopause kicking your ass? 

 

  

Midlife should be a time to celebrate!  ꧂  


          It's your time to  EXPLORE, VISUALIZE, and TRANSFORM your life!

ARE YOU READY?  

Yes, I want to design a life I love! 

Does work/life balance seem impossible? Does it even exist? 

   Are you tired of taking care of everyone else at the expense of yourself? Or maybe you're just tired of your life... 

Have you forgotten who you are, or what you enjoy?

Do you yearn for a more fulfilling life?

If your answer is yes, 

Let's Chat! 

My name is Beverly Joyce. I am a Johns-Hopkins-trained, board certified OBGYN and Menopause certified provider.   I am also a certified physician development coach for midlife women physicians looking to work through burnout, job dissatisfaction, midlife malaise, and put some spark in their lives. After 30+ years of practicing Obstetrics and Gynecology, I burned out at the age of 50, changed my life, and am now thriving. You can read a brief version of my  burnout story, along with many other women physicians' stories, in Thriving After Burnout (described below).  My full  story is recounted in my memoir, The Birth of Joy- A Female Physician's Healing Journey through Childhood Trauma, Midlife Burnout, and the Rediscovery of Passion and Purpose.  Truthfully, I became a coach to help myself, and, ultimately, to help other women physicians in midlife. Midlife hormonal changes, career burnout, desire for a new direction... I've been through it all, and I have the knowledge and experience to help you! Please click the Calendly button to schedule a free discovery session to discuss your particular needs! 

 Praise for "The Birth of Joy- A Female Physician's Healing Journey through Childhood Trauma, Midlife Burnout, and the Rediscovery of Passion and Purpose" - available now on Amazon!

The Birth of Joy – 5 stars!
When I first saw the cover of this book, I wondered why the author would describe herself as "a female physician" instead of simply a "physician," as the title seemed to corroborate that women physicians are in a different group than men physicians. After reading it, however, I think the title is perfect. The book is a memoir; a story of the author's life, influences, experiences of despair, then positive choices and hope. It details the true story of what I would guess at least half of women physicians experience—that they are driven to give of themselves until there is nothing left until their colleagues wonder what is "wrong with them" when they are difficult to work with or have bad behavior. The assumption that a white person of privilege with access to educational opportunities and financial privilege has "nothing to complain about" is a rampant prejudice among the lay public. I encourage all readers to continue through to the end before jumping to conclusions. The first half of the book goes quickly; while initially finding the childhood anecdotes lacking detail, I later realized this brevity served to illustrate that some memories are too painful to recall and ultimately aren't needed to get to the end teachings of the story.
This book illustrates the humanity of the experience of a medical career, coupled with being a wife and mother, and the stresses leading to a lack of self-care that anyone (from any socioeconomic group or occupation) can experience when overworked to the bone as most female physicians are. Finally, it is a story of hope. The book illuminates how it can take several decades (which is "normal") for one to figure out their life path as it evolves and reveals itself to us. We have a choice in how to react or respond to the circumstances presented to us, even though it doesn't seem that way in young adulthood due to parental and societal influences. Congratulations to the author for honoring her true self, sharing compassion, finding forgiveness, and passing on knowledge. The "Reflections" questions at the end of each part are useful for all readers.

~ Michelle Wyatt, MD

5 STARS: Amazon Reviewer:  In this book of self-reflection, Dr. Joyce is both vulnerable and strong. I received the story as conversational and intimate, which might be ironic considering her self-confessed aversion to intimate conversation! Really glad to have met the author through coaching social circles, and to have the opportunity to read her story. I have no doubt she will continue to change the world in her next career chapter!

Coaching Programs

The DrJoyCoaching Signature Program

The DrJoyCoaching Signature Program is a comprehensive coaching program tailored entirely to your needs.  We'll start with where you are now and build a bridge to where you want to go. What are the current problems and challenges?  What are the roadblocks? Or areas where you're spinning your wheels? What is the destination, if you know? If you don't, we'll creatively brainstorm to figure it out! 

Wouldn't you like to be excited to get up in the morning?  Let's dive into your goals and dreams!  What is your vision for your future?  We'll look at thoughts and mindset that might be getting in your way. We'll use both sides of your brain to help you see the different paths forward to achieving your goals. And, of course, we will talk about some easy wins for how to improve your day-to-day happiness. 

 Each session will leave you with some new things to think about, your goals, your motivation, and your mindset.  Sometimes there will be homework. We'll celebrate milestones, and assess your progress along the way. And I will be your accountability partner in addition to your coach. I want you to succeed! 

 This program includes 12 sessions. You will have 9 months to use them, giving you ample time and opportunity to process, but not so much time that things get neglected. There will be plenty of time over our time together to use the tools you've learned, and to be creative about YOUR possibilities! You will also have access to me via text or phone between sessions if needed.

Let's get you unstuck and forge a path forward toward JOY, and a more fulfilled life!

Price: $4650

The Short Program  

 This 3-month program (6 sessions) also gives you ample opportunity to joy-ify your life! We'll look at a few aspects of your life, and work on the ones that you feel need the most improvement right now! 

 We'll dive right into your current issues, and come up with some ideas to help you move forward immediately.  By the end of our time together, you will have keen insight into what's been keeping you from really making changes, and you will have some concrete plans to move ahead. 

You'll also get one additional session as follow-up to be used within 3 months of finishing the program.   If you'd like to continue coaching with me after finishing these sessions, we can discuss how to make that happen! 

Price: $2700

Ala Carte Coaching Session

Do you prefer to explore your specific strategies for joy in one 90-minute session?  Let's get started. 

After you see how valuable this can be, you may want to sign up for a longer program.  You can apply this to the cost of a longer program. 

Price: $425 

Testimonials

"Her coaching has been AWESOME. Heartmath works!"

Rebecca C, MD

OB-GYN

"You have given me tools to decrease stress during clinic. You have also helped to get me on track to restore a work/ life balance. Most importantly you have made me realize that I still like to take care of patients."

Alex.V., MD

Primary Care 

"Dr Joy was just what I needed Through accountability, reframing thoughts, and encouragement to see things already present in my life that needed tending, I was able to help myself. She encouraged some accountability to put more energy into those things that fill my tank. Her style is subtle and gentle. I appreciated not being told what to do, but simply asked the right questions so that I could see more clearly what I want. With a few changes to how I frame things and letting go of things not serving me, she has helped me unleash not just a satisfaction with life that was slipping away, but an excitement for what is here and yet to come. "

Rose S. MD

Primary Care 

"I happened to see one of Bev's posts on LinkedIn at a very vulnerable time. I was feeling numbness creeping over both my professional and personal life. That same day I had asked myself, what happened to my joy? My exhaustion, felt by healthcare workers all around the world in 2020, was magnified by a long running moral injury in my leadership role. I felt ineffective and disengaged. After the first two sessions with Bev, I began to see how I lost myself, how I neglected to show myself the same compassion and consideration I gave others. The stealth way she led me to revelations was powerful to me. Through my coaching, I began to exercise more. I renewed my mindfulness around my eating habits and how stress affected them. I began carving away time from work and re-dedicating it to my family and myself. The most lasting benefit of my coaching with Bev is the reinforcement of my boundaries between work and home and my renewed focus on self -care. I believe every one's journey is a winding path, so at some point I will likely ask Bev again for more coaching as my life unfolds.."

Kelly C., MD

Hospitalist/Physician Leader 

"Sometimes when I am mentally exhausted, I don't have the patience to reason with my rambunctious teenagers. At such moments, I often speak unkind words that I very quickly regret. I had an opportunity to work one-on-one with Bev exploring ways I could stay calm when physically and mentally stressed. Coach Bev skillfully guided me through a visualization exercise where I was able to imagine the best version of myself in that situation. Through this innovative coaching method, I strove to become calm and wise like Master Yoda. Master Yoda has since become a symbol of my best self. I have printed pictures of Yoda and placed them around my house and office to remind myself of how I want to respond in a stressful situation. Coach Bev's coaching style was very effective for me. My relationship with my teens has improved as a result of her coaching."

Karmen P., MD

Pediatrician/ Physician Coach  

"I had reached a point in my career where I was not sure which path was right for me. I needed some help clarifying what success meant to me, and what I needed to do to attain it. Your coaching helped me to think deeply about each choice and imagine myself in each of the scenarios in a clearer manner. I felt you were very genuine, empathetic and authentic in your coaching."

Anon, MD

Physician

 "I wanted to thank you personally for helping me realize the previous toxic work environment i was a part of and making a change. I started at my new job, a private practice, and I am home every morning with my kids and then again by 5:15 every night. It's amazing, and truly life changing. My husband, nanny and kids have all commented that I actually am happy (and yell less- again because i'm not as stressed and actually have a better quality of life)! Your comment about thinking about what my legacy as a mom will be was monumental for me, and I greatly appreciate you asking me the hard question and also validating my feelings about my prior workplace- as they truly made me feel like I was crazy for wanting to make changes and ultimately leave."

Dr. H.

OB/GYN


Thriving After Burnout

Coauthored by 50+ women physicians who've been through burnout and are now thriving. Read their stories for inspiration and confirmation that you too can not only survive burnout, but thrive. 

Buy your copy here.  


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Coaching Certifications

Certified Physician  Development Coach
HeartMath Certified Trainer